Below are presentations from a live event for “True Betrayal: Overcoming the Betrayal of Your Spouse’s Sexual Sin. For the various counseling options available from this material visit www.summitrdu.com/counseling.

  • The True Betrayal seminar is also available in video format.

The complementing study “False Love: Overcoming Sexual Sin from Pornography to Adultery” is also available in a video and podcast format.

If you know a marriage affected by infidelity or pornography, download this resource. Share on X

NOTE: Many people have asked how they can get a copy of the seminar notebook referenced in this verbal presentation. You can request a copy from Summit’s admin over counseling at counseling@summitrdu.com (please note this is an administrative account; no individual or family counsel is provided through e-mail).

STEP 1.
PREPARE yourself physically, emotionally, and spiritually to face your suffering.

STEP 2.
ACKNOWLEDGE the specific history and realness of my suffering.

STEP 3.
UNDERSTAND the impact of my suffering.

STEP 4.
LEARN MY SUFFERING STORY which I used to make sense of my experience.

STEP 5.
MOURN the wrongness of what happened and receive God’s comfort.

STEP 6.
LEARN MY GOSPEL STORY by which God gives meaning to my experience.

STEP 7.
IDENTIFY GOALS that allow me to combat the impact of my suffering.

STEP 8.
PERSEVERE in the new life and identity to which God has called me.

STEP 9.
STEWARD all of my life for God’s glory.

If this post was beneficial for you, then consider reading other blogs from my “Favorite Posts on Adultery” or “Favorite Posts on Pornography” post which address other facets of these subjects.