Below are the videos from the presentation of “True Betrayal: Overcoming the Betrayal of Your Spouse’s Sexual Sin. For the various counseling options available from this material visit www.summitrdu.com/counseling.

The complementing study “False Love: Overcoming Sexual Sin from Pornography to Adultery” is also available in a video format.

NOTE: Many people have asked how they can get a copy of the seminar notebook referenced in this verbal presentation. You can request a copy from Summit’s admin over counseling at counseling@summitrdu.com (please note this is an administrative account; no individual or family counsel is provided through e-mail).

STEP 1.
PREPARE yourself physically, emotionally, and spiritually to face your suffering.

True Betrayal: Step 1 from Equip on Vimeo.

For the “How to Talk to Children When Sexual Sin Affects the Family” appendix click here: Appendix Talking to Children When Sexual Sin Affects the Family

Blog post “How to End an Extra-Marital Relationship” (referenced as Appendix B from the False Love seminar)

STEP 2.
ACKNOWLEDGE the specific history and realness of my suffering.

True Betrayal: Step 2 from Equip on Vimeo.

For the “Evaluation – Condition of Marriage Before Sexual Sin” assessment click here: Evaluation – Condition of Marriage Before Sexual Sin

STEP 3.
UNDERSTAND the impact of my suffering.

True Betrayal: Step 3 from Equip on Vimeo.

 

STEP 4.
LEARN MY SUFFERING STORY which I used to make sense of my experience.

True Betrayal: Step 4 from Equip on Vimeo.

 

STEP 5.
MOURN the wrongness of what happened and receive God’s comfort.

True Betrayal: Step 5 from Equip on Vimeo.

STEP 6.
LEARN MY GOSPEL STORY by which God gives meaning to my experience.

True Betrayal: Step 6 from Equip on Vimeo.

STEP 7.
IDENTIFY GOALS that allow me to combat the impact of my suffering.

True Betrayal: Step 7 from Equip on Vimeo.

STEP 8.
PERSEVERE in the new life and identity to which God has called me.

True Betrayal: Step 8 from Equip on Vimeo.

STEP 9.
STEWARD all of my life for God’s glory.

True Betrayal: Step 9 from Equip on Vimeo.