The link below provides a 50 question, self-scoring evaluation that helps you and your spouse asses:

  • The shared beliefs and values necessary for a healthy sex life
  • The comfort with your bodies and vocabulary necessary for a healthy sex life
  • Factors related to the frequency and quality of a healthy sex life
  • Red flags that would derail a healthy sex life

Being Excellent Lovers Evaluation

We will be addressing the subject of sexuality at the upcoming Sam James Institute Forum. In the second half of this presentation, I will be presenting “Learning to Skillfully and Unashamedly Enjoy God’s Gift of Sex.”

While the primary audience of this material will be for married or engaged couples, we believe that — in a culture that is already sex-saturated — having a wholesome view of what God intends sex to be in marriage can be an important asset in strengthening single’s resolve not to settle for something less outside the context of marriage.

A Cultural Assessment and Christian Education in Sexuality
Sam James Institute Forum
Date: Tuesday February 10, 2015
Time: 6:30 to 7:30 pm – Cindy Peterson, Director of Women’s Discipleship at Summit
Time: 7:30 to 8:30 pm – Brad Hambrick, Pastor of Counseling at Summit
Location: The Summit Church, Brier Creek South Venue
Address: 2415-107 Presidential Drive; Durham, NC 27703
Cost: Free

If you are unable to attend this event, but are interested in this material, then a version of this presentation is available in videos 4 and 5 of the Creating Gospel-Centered Marriage: Intimacy seminar.