Below are the videos from the presentation of “True Betrayal: Overcoming the Betrayal of Your Spouse’s Sexual Sin.” For the various counseling options available from this material visit www.summitrdu.com/counseling.
The complementing study “False Love: Overcoming Sexual Sin from Pornography to Adultery” is also available in a video format.
NOTE: Many people have asked how they can get a copy of the seminar notebook referenced in this verbal presentation. You can request a copy from Summit’s admin over counseling at email@example.com (please note this is an administrative account; no individual or family counsel is provided through e-mail).
PREPARE yourself physically, emotionally, and spiritually to face your suffering.
A recommendation with this step is to ask your spouse to install internet accountability software on all of their electronic devices. An excellent provider of this software is Covenant Eyes. Their ministry provides a many articles, for which I am a frequent contributor, for you and your spouse’s continued growth and encouragement.
ACKNOWLEDGE the specific history and realness of my suffering.
For the “Evaluation – Condition of Marriage Before Sexual Sin” assessment click here.
UNDERSTAND the impact of my suffering.
LEARN MY SUFFERING STORY which I used to make sense of my experience.
MOURN the wrongness of what happened and receive God’s comfort.
LEARN MY GOSPEL STORY by which God gives meaning to my experience.
IDENTIFY GOALS that allow me to combat the impact of my suffering.
PERSEVERE in the new life and identity to which God has called me.
STEWARD all of my life for God’s glory.