Below are the videos from the presentation of “True Betrayal: Overcoming the Betrayal of Your Spouse’s Sexual Sin. For the various counseling options available from this material visit www.summitrdu.com/counseling.

  • The True Betrayal seminar is also available in podcast format.

The complementing study “False Love: Overcoming Sexual Sin from Pornography to Adultery” is also available in a video and podcast format.

NOTE: Many people have asked how they can get a copy of the seminar notebook referenced in this verbal presentation. You can request a copy from Summit’s admin over counseling at counseling@summitrdu.com (please note this is an administrative account; no individual or family counsel is provided through e-mail).

STEP 1.
PREPARE yourself physically, emotionally, and spiritually to face your suffering.

True Betrayal: Step 1 from Equip on Vimeo.

A recommendation with this step is to ask your spouse to install internet accountability software on all of their electronic devices. An excellent provider of this software is Covenant Eyes. Their ministry provides a many articles, for which I am a frequent contributor, for you and your spouse’s continued growth and encouragement.

STEP 2.
ACKNOWLEDGE the specific history and realness of my suffering.

True Betrayal: Step 2 from Equip on Vimeo.

STEP 3.
UNDERSTAND the impact of my suffering.

True Betrayal: Step 3 from Equip on Vimeo.

STEP 4.
LEARN MY SUFFERING STORY which I used to make sense of my experience.

True Betrayal: Step 4 from Equip on Vimeo.

STEP 5.
MOURN the wrongness of what happened and receive God’s comfort.

True Betrayal: Step 5 from Equip on Vimeo.

STEP 6.
LEARN MY GOSPEL STORY by which God gives meaning to my experience.

True Betrayal: Step 6 from Equip on Vimeo.

STEP 7.
IDENTIFY GOALS that allow me to combat the impact of my suffering.

True Betrayal: Step 7 from Equip on Vimeo.

STEP 8.
PERSEVERE in the new life and identity to which God has called me.

True Betrayal: Step 8 from Equip on Vimeo.

STEP 9.
STEWARD all of my life for God’s glory.

True Betrayal: Step 9 from Equip on Vimeo.

If this post was beneficial for you, then consider reading other blogs from my “Favorite Posts on Adultery” or “Favorite Posts on Pornography” post which address other facets of these subjects.