Below are podcasts from the presentation of “False Love: Overcoming Sexual Sin from Pornography to Adultery.” For the various counseling options available from this material visit

  • The False Love seminar is also available in podcast format.
  • The complimenting study “True Betrayal: Overcoming the Betrayal of Your Spouse’s Sexual Sin” is also available in a video and podcast format.

NOTE: Many people have asked how they can get a copy of the seminar notebook referenced in this verbal presentation. You can request a copy from Summit’s admin over counseling at (please note this is an administrative account; no individual or family counsel is provided through e-mail).

STEP 1. ADMIT I have a struggle I cannot overcome without God.

False Love: Step 1 from Equip on Vimeo.

STEP 2. ACKNOWLEDGE the breadth and impact of my sin.

False Love: Step 2 from Equip on Vimeo.

STEP 3. UNDERSTAND the origin, motive, and history of my sin.

False Love: Step 3 from Equip on Vimeo.

STEP 4. REPENT TO GOD for how my sin replaced and misrepresented Him.

False Love: Step 4 from Equip on Vimeo.

STEP 5. CONFESS TO THOSE AFFECTED for harm done and seek to make amends.

False Love: Step 5 from Equip on Vimeo.

STEP 6. RESTRUCTURE MY LIFE to rely on God’s grace and Word to transform my life.

False Love: Step 6 from Equip on Vimeo.

A recommendation with this step (if not sooner) is to install internet accountability software on all of your electronic devices. An excellent provider of this software is Covenant Eyes. Their ministry provides a many articles, for which I am a frequent contributor, for you continued growth and encouragement.

STEP 7. IMPLEMENT the new structure pervasively with humility and flexibility.

  False Love: Step 7 from Equip on Vimeo.

STEP 8. PERSEVERE in the new life and identity to which God has called me.

False Love: Step 8 from Equip on Vimeo.

STEP 9. STEWARD all of my life for God’s glory.

False Love: Step 9 from Equip on Vimeo.

If this post was beneficial for you, then consider reading other blogs from my “Favorite Posts on Adultery” or “Favorite Posts on Pornography” post which address other facets of this subject.