How to Start a Difficult Conversation

I frequently counsel couples who have a hard time starting difficult conversations. It is not always because they have a track record of doing these conversations poorly. Frequently, these couples (or at least one member of the couple) are just painfully adverse to...

“Overcoming Anger” Videos Now Posted

Many of you have been asking, “When will the videos from the ‘Overcoming Anger’ seminar be posted?” Those videos are now becoming ready. The first two are currently up and the rest should be posted by the end of the week. For the link to these...

The Momentum of Wisdom

A Counselor Reflects on Mere Christianity by C.S. Lewis “Remember that, as I said, the right direction leads not only to peace but to knowledge. When a man is getting better he understands more and more clearly the evil that is still left in him. When a man is getting...

Effects of an Affair

We know that the betrayal of an affair hurts, but the intensity of the pain, awkwardness of the subject, and crisis-nature of the disclosure often cause us to neglect asking, “What does an affair do that causes it to hurt so badly?” In this post, we will look at three...